Inspire the voters through IT

IT is becoming necessity of the world and we cannot imagine our life without it. Those days are gone when internet is a luxury to have and now IT is life. From paying bills to wishing friend we can do almost everything through IT. Those things which are not made possible a decade back is now possible by the social media. Ever since the Facebook and other social networks introduced it brings a revolutionary change in the world. IT is now become an essential tool of business and we cannot deny its significance. Nowadays the social media apps like WECHAT are playing a crucial role in the individual’s life.

Social media apps are strong platform to carry the campaign and to inspire the mass audience. If the social media app is been used in the efficient manner then it would provide better results than social network ad campaign. The reason is simple because the social media apps are used by real users and the number of fake accounts is low as compared to social networking websites. Let’s talk about social media apps and vote awareness campaign. Election seasons are on the EC of India is willing to inspire the mass to go and vote. What if they use social media for vote awareness campaign?

The best way to initiate such campaign is to introduce some stickers in social media apps related to the voting. Intelligently created funny images of common man having proud on his face after voting can motivate the individual to caste vote. A small vote message sent over social media apps with a request to forward it to all will help the EC to reach the mass. Giving vote is a noble cause and it is a right of every voter to caste vote and to choose the right person.  Generally the voters forget to vote or have some issues with their cards and they ended up without doing voting. If the information helping them to remember the vote dates and to trouble shoot the issue is passed then they will surely go and vote.

Many people don’t have voter ID cards and they don’t know how to get them. If the message related to voter ID cards is been spread with information of procedure then people will surely apply for it. I have seen people forgetting the documents required for the voter ID card application and in those times it will be handy if the social media app is having an account managed by the EC to reply the user with query then it will help them in getting the cards. Social media apps are effective and users are prone to use it when they are on move and hence the chance of grabbing the attention of user increases.  If some accounts related to voting details and query is been made along with sticker series of common man voting is been introduced then I would bet that voting percentage will surely shoot up. Engage the users in forwarding voting jokes and help them to motivate others. A single inspired voter will turn many others to vote and percentage will shoot up. So, use this tool effectively to run the efficient voting campaign. 

Let sums up the year

Bags of 2013 are packed and wait for the train is on. This is the time to sums up what it gives and what it takes from you. From the much awaited retirement of Sachin Ramesh Tendulkar to the election of the Kejriwal for C.M. this year is full of unexpected events. One cannot deny the fact that the year is not fruitful for them. For me, 2013 is the year of the professional learning. I have learned many important professional lessons of my life which will surely help me in my professional career.

I had gone through misery of being ignored to the glory of being professionally noticed. I had my bite on every emotion and as I am looking back at the year I am complacent with the years. Just like the other year ending I was supposed to prepare a resolution list which I can break in the first week of New Year but I decide not to. I am not planning to achieve in the next year and all I want is to taste the randomness of year. I want to see the advantage and disadvantage of being a clueless person holding on the opportunity presents to him.  I want to taste the agony of being a spoiled person and to enjoy the randomness in the life. I had a shot of randomness on 19 December and I want to have more such shots is next year.  I would rather be happy if life responds me with the same and helps me in creating a memorable next year.

Still two days to go for the next year and still few memories are to be made.  For those who thinks this devil’s number year is futile and expecting the luck in the next year I would only say that sums the year and realize your assumption holds true or not.  Happy New year in Advance and wish you a fresh smiling beginning of 2014. 

A day of transformation

Caught up doing nothing; that is me.  For the last few months I have been caught by many people including friends, family, strangers, and all have the same question why you are not doing anything. The intellectual answer of this is has to be the one I give “I am planning”. I know it is hard to digest these words from the mouth of the person who just forgot to take a sip of hot coffee in his hands. Well, to be honest I am actually doing nothing. I had no plans what so ever and I do not know what I will do.  I am living a life of a clueless person knowing the fact that I cannot afford to this luxury. After extending this luxury, I finally decide to end it and face the immediate hurdle i.e. what will I do.

I have two options to deal with it, either I set goals, make plans and tries to execute it or just go with the flow and take participation in the present.  After spending 10 minutes of my time, I find a new option i.e. finish the work which I am procrastinating from past 3 months.

When I make to do list of this kind of work, I was shocked to see its length.  As I made my plans hence I start doing the things, while finishing every single work I feel more confident, and relaxed. Is that the things, which makes me impatient? Well I do not think so, but at least for the time being I have no work and now I can plan what I want to do in the next week. Setting small plans is always good for your confidence but do not set useless plans.

This Christmas becomes transformational day of my life when I finally realized that to make a fresh beginning I had to end to the current state and now I am all ready to make the fresh beginning. However, I still do not what I will do but at least the thought of work is no more in my unconscious brain and hence I can set goal in better way.

If you too are facing similar situation then focus the thing, which you are avoiding from months.  These works can be anything like polishing your shoes, arranging your table, changing the bulb or desktop wallpaper. While making a list of this work just be honest to yourself and choose the work, which you are supposed to do but you smartly procrastinated. Let me know if it makes any difference in your life or not.  Merry Christmas for all the readers and hope you too live a transformational day.

A random Indica

Finally the winter strikes the Indore and cafeterias are experiencing the crowd. You can easily see groups of people having coffee and sharing random smiles. I too love coffee and unlike other seasonal customers, I often visit cafeteria. In most of the cases I am accompanied by one or two friends and whenever someone wants to have a word with me he asks me to have a cup of coffee.  

On 19 December I was having coffee and was in conversation with one of my friends on some random topic. Place was filled with group of friends enjoying the cold season. After ten minutes or so I saw a girl with fair complexion who was wearing specs. She was beautiful and I must say she carry herself really nice. She asks for a cup of coffee and a cigarette. I don’t know which brand she chose but I can make out she tried some light or mild type of cigarette. She was completely ignored about the fact that I was watching her taking drag and reading HT. I woke up from my seat and decide to have a cigarette. She didn’t notice it either. I came back to my place and was again busy in conversation. Finally I ask for the bill and coincidently she too asks for the same.  

After paying the bill both of us are approaching towards our vehicles and that moment I got a feeling that I need to have word with the girl. Before she reaches her vehicle I called her. My friend was perplexed by my action. She turned towards me and a brief conversation started –

Me - Mam, can I buy a cigarette for you?

Girl – Why, what’s the necessity?

Me – Because you are the only girl whom I saw smoking on the public place in Indore.

She smiled and said

Girl – no thanks,

Me – Ok mam, Good night

Girl – Good night

Conversation ended! I know it’s not an interesting conversation and many of you will find plenty of faults in it but I said what I was thinking. Literally I never saw a girl in Indore smoking on public place. My friend was witnessing all this stuff and now he wants the explanation of my action.

I know what I did was not a heroic or interesting thing but yes it’s a bit weird. I don’t even ask her name or any other information. All I saw is that she has a white color TATA INDICA which she drove away from me.  I did not know what she thinks about this incident but my aim was to have a random conversation with random person so that random nature of life will stay and I won’t be trapped in the routine. May be she will read this blog post though percentage of it is less than 1 percent but still luck has the chance to strike. Moreover, from that day to now whenever my friend and I saw a white color Indica we remind this incident and smile and that’s sufficient for me. Keep the randomness quotient in your life so that you can have a never die sweet hope on luck. 

Life with a Lenovo tab

In this world, life is becoming dependent on technology. I still recall those days when buying a cell phone was luxury and now living without it is misery. Moreover, with products like Lenovo yoga tablet, it is really difficult to imaging future life without tablets. I never own a tablet but I do love to own one. If I got the chance to have a tablet then I think my routine life will be completely changed.

My morning would start from checking the late night whats app messages followed by checking the current headlines.  Then I would do go for regular jogging in which my favorite soul music is been played on the tablet and if get some morning raw scenes then I would surely capture them. Music will last till I get ready to go to the work.

After reaching the office, I would check my to-do list which I made on the tablet last night and then start working. From giving presentations on tablets to clients and to share the ppts which I stored in the tablet I would be able to increase my work speed. In lunch time, I can afford to have a look at the current headlines and stock rates and if the stocks are trading above then my purchasing rate I can sell them off. After coming from the home music session again will start as it’s the time for me to take evening bath. After spending some time with my family on the dinner table, I can check my Facebook profile on my tab and also post some tweets.  Few replies to the whats app messages and little conversation with my friends, it’s the time to read some quality writings.

Reading on the Lenovo tab will be a lot easier as I don’t have to hold bulky books or to keep the lights on. While reading I would make my tomorrow to-do’s and just before I decide to sleep, a video Skype call from my friend will prevent me from sleeping. After exchanging some laughs I finally close my eyes. I will be half asleep when I will realize that the tab is not charged but then I reminded that the tab is Lenovo yoga tab and hence I can afford to sleep. Life would be good when I have Lenovo tablet and that time I can proudly say that I own Lenovo ideapad + Lenovo tablet and this is the reason why I suggest everyone to like - https://www.facebook.com/LenovoIndia.

A banal Sunday for brilliant Monday

Finally a Sunday! I always think that what happens if there is no Sunday in the week and got scared by the thought that I had to see the professional relations one more day.  No matter I am doing anything significant or not I always cherish Sunday. Though mostly I messed my Sunday by doing some preparation for Monday but still I love my Sunday. I have seen people making plans of Monday on Sunday and they spoil the day.

In order to enjoy Sunday to max people plans a tight schedules for the day and ended up by wasting lot of energy. Lack of sleep and rest made the Monday difficult for many and they find it difficult to work. If you too are one of those persons then you are need of some banal Sundays. Avoid work as much as you can and once you are doing it then you are full charged for the Monday. You can make evening plans if you find it difficult to stay at home on holidays or you can invite someone at your place. It will help you in saving the energy and you can start Monday with fresh positive energy.

Though these things are easy to say but I know it is really hard to implement as brain is in the mood to enjoy the most and your restrictive actions upsets the brain. I don’t know what to do for enjoying Sunday by spending minimum energy and maximum fun but I  know one thing for sure that is without spending a banal unplanned day I won’t be able to fully charged for the working day. One way of doing it is doing the things which you enjoy the most and requires the low level of energy. I have made my list which is as follows –

·         Book reading

·         Playing guitar

·         Rearranging shelf

·         Inviting friends to my home

·         Visiting friends home in the eve

·         Watching a movie

·         Taking an afternoon nap

·         Going out with my family to meet some relatives

·         Buying books

·         Creating new weekly plans

·         Washing vehicles

These are some on my preferred to-do and I try that at least three or four activity is been included in my Sunday. As all activity requires low energy and hence I can spend time in making strong interpersonal relations and I can prepare better for Monday. You can include your own favorite activity but you have to remember the fact that you must not planned action packed Sundays back to back. Just give yourself a breather and enjoy the holiday.  So make your own energy saving list and prepare for Sunday in a better way. Do write to me what options you make and what are your own thoughts regarding to it. Waiting for your reply !

Path in between problems

It’s all about a perfect positive start….

Well what is perfect positive start?

If you are in a conversation and has replied in above manner then you just set yourself for some philosophical+ scientific + observational + experiential speech. Whenever you sound negative or screwed up you will always have plenty of people to make you feel that you are a fool and hence you are thinking in that manner. Few may motivate you but most of people will tries to irk you with your own situation. Moreover, if you try to avoid them or shift their focus on the other things they will come even harder at you. At last you have to act like you are the happiest man in this world and you don’t even care what is happening around you. Unfortunately, I am on the hearing side and I am fed up of acting like a happiest man in this world.

Whenever I try to avoid the problem or to solve it, I find myself in complete mess. I don’t know why but god is sending me problems in package. Sometimes I think that god is having buy one get 2 offer going on for me. After reading so many motivating stories and books I finally realized that none of it was working. Not because their approach is not practical but because my mindset is playing the role of the hurdle. Every time I try to change my mind set I find my life completely in the ruined state.

After doing every single thing to motivate myself I finally realize that the only way to motivate myself is to stop motivating me. I am doing exactly what is opposite to motivation. Well it increases the agony but at least there is nothing bad left for thinking. My mind is actually out of the negative thoughts which are a sign of relief but still the right track is far away but at least I know that I am ready to make a move on. I suggest all of you that if you thinking that you are miserable than just pay attention to that for a while and soon you will be realized that you are not good enough to become the most miserable individual. I hope no one finds need of trying it but if someone is in desolation just share this post with him, maybe he find a way out. 

Is really Modi factor worked?

All the political corners are praising Narendra Modi as he helps BJP in managing a win all four state elections. Though the results are still to be declared but from the reaction of congress it is clear that they accept defeat. Is really the Modi factor work? well for obvious reason yes it worked. But if you closely observe then you will find out the Modi is just acting as a medium for the person who are thoroughly disappointed by the congress government and wants the change.

Talking about Madhya Pradesh, Modi factor is completely ignored as the standing CM Shivraj Singh Chauhan has greater impact on the voters. People want to see him as CM again and hence they are voting. Now moving towards the Chattisgarh there also standing CM Raman singh is having good hold over the voters and congress is lagging the leadership. So, rather than Modi it’s the standing CM and incapable congress leaders who are making it easy for BJP. These are BJP owned states and now lets discuss about the congress owned states Rajasthan and Delhi.

Rajasthan wants to see Ashok Gehlot as a CM but their cabinet ministers are not that good. Ashok Gehlot did not anything significantly wrong but hasn’t done significant right and hence people are now looking for the change. Now the high profile Delhi elections where the standing Congress CM Sheela Dixit is expected to lose in this election. She served three complete terms as a CM and now she may be ruled out by the people. Inability of congress government in the center, increasing rape cases and strong anti-congress movement led by social activist damages Sheela dixit badly. People are fed up of congress and just need a good option to replace them. Modi is doing exactly the same thing. He always points the negative aspects of the congress while he never give any indication regarding his own development plans. Gujrat is blessed by foreign funds and the economics of state is completely different from the country’s economy. Is he having any strong plans? If so, then why don’t he gave an indication of that plan?  There are still many of the questions to be raised but the bottom line of this discussion is that BJP gained advantage because congress weakens its position not because Modi ameliorate the BJP. I would love to see Shivraj singh again as a CM and also eager to see Modi plans. Let’s hope they build the better India and fulfill the expectation of common man.

Scare the rapers not the victims

Morning needs to be energetic as it sets the tone of the day and the moment you start reading newspaper you are irked by the women molestation news. What is happening in the nation? I don’t know how to ignore the news of sexual harassments of females especially below 10 years. Unfortunately I have to read the headline of such news. I was thinking about this issue and I found out that there is something exists in the present situation which acts as a motivating agent for the rapers. While thinking about it I found that our law enforcement bodies along with law are helping as motivating agents. If you don’t believe on me just check few cases –

Nirbhaya case – Remember the case of delhi girl gangraped in the bus and got the media attention. What happens in the case still the verdict on the minor is pending and he is now moving to SC. What the bullshit is this?

Arushi murder case – famous case of double murder of Arushi and hemraj is just ended by convicting arushi’s parents as police think arushi had a relationship with hemraj which provokes her dad to murder her, though no clear evidence of affair was presented by the police. Is it making any sense?

Tehlaka case – Editor-in-chief of Tehlaka magazine caught by CCTV while harassing the junior journalist is still fighting for anticipatory bell, and he is hopeful that he will get it. He is planning to file bail application in GOA as he thinks he gets the bail. For those who are always saying that Delhi under congress rule is not safe for women just look at this incident. Rather than filing the bail in congress owned delhi he is filing in BJP ruled GOA, why is he doing that?

Well the conclusion of such events is simple that our law enforcement bodies are incapable of giving spot decisions and they are motivating the potential criminals. People with such sick mentality think that they can easily spend their entire life fighting the case and hence they are doing it. I think there must be some reforms have to be made which not only help the rape victims to get justice but also threatens the potential rappers. I hope soon some reforms are made which reduces the rape cases. Till then I will try my level best to understand the legal process and prepare some amendment draft. I would be more than thankful if you helped me in preparing the draft.  Waiting for your mails and feedbacks at – vishwasnyaik@gmail.com

Aayushi-Hemaraj murder – is really justice served?

Finally the famous Arushi Talwar- Hemraj Banjade murder case comes to end and the

parents of the girls are found guilty. CBI gave bollywood style story that Arushi was having affair with Hemraj and was seen in objection position by her dad. Arushi’s father Mr. Rajesh Talwar filled with rage and decides to punish both. He murdered Arushi and Hemraj and try every possible efforts to destroy the evidences.  Though there is no proof of so called affair or the rage incidents but court and CBI strongly think. 

If you read the statements of Arushi’s neighbor or other domestic help you will find out that there is no conclusive evidence of these affairs are found and no one knew about it.  By reading some random stories and using my common sense I can say that there is a strong possibility that ‘affair’ was not the reason of murder. But, the court thinks in other direction and decides the culprit.  I don’t see any justice served in the case. How can a girl who is not even old enough to give her consensus found in objectionable positions with a 45 year old man? Why we always find a B grade porn oriented movie story to act as a reason for crime?

 Indian police is known for cooking stories and if they are not having conclusive proof then why they are raising question on the personal life of the person and why always rage is the reason for owner killing. I don’t think 14 year old girl can manage affair as efficiently as Arushi did. For me the case is still not conclusive but by seeing the pile of pending case files I can say that this case should be end well before if such kind of verdict is to be come. 

Indian education – Applying limits on the students

Have you ever heard an engineering student saying that this job is really worthless and I am not doing engineering for doing such jobs? Well I am sure you must have heard similar comments from the students passing out from a reputed institute and having some good professional degree.  You can’t expect an engineer to do sales job even if he is unemployed. Moreover, a simple commerce graduate will not think of handsome package as he knows that he is not as skilled as MBA or Engineer.

When I started my job search I too filter out the opportunity based on the criteria that it will suit my engineering degree and it will not. While going to such transition I realized the fact that my education sets my brain and it is actually restricting me to enter in the new field or doing less paid job. While the commerce graduates are willing to do the same job at lower salary. The only reason for it is they have their own limits and they find high package job out of their reach while engineering student find low package job worth less.

Indian education systems give ample opportunity to every student to get the degrees and with each degree it sets brain of the students. IITIANS are always taught that they are the most minded students while the average BA graduate is taught that they are weakest. I personally oppose this thought and I believe that “no institute can teach you how to use your brain and it depends on you to use your brain.”  All you have to pay attention to a fact that you are interested in it or not. If you are interested then you will find someone to guide you to become expert in that field. Moreover, with the advent of internet it is now possible to learn everything.

Rather than confining yourself to stereotype career try something which you love to do. No matter you is a commerce graduate or engineer you will surely get success. I have seen plenty of engineers doing wonders in the finance and plenty of BCOM doing brilliant in IT field.  So, don’t think that job is not suiting your education think whether you are interested in it or not. If you are doing the thing of your interest, you will surely able to extract good package even if you start low. 

Goals and gaps

Goals, an objective set by individuals to reach in their life and goals are achieved new goals start taking place. There are plethora of quotations available regarding goals and every goal related statement talks about hard work and focus.  However, it’s true and there is no substitute to hard work. I always find myself confusing regarding goals and the only reason behind it is my area of interest. My interest range varies from writing to finance and that is the only reason I make a mess of planning. Am I alone doing this stuff? Unfortunately, I am not alone. There are plenty of individuals who do not know what their actual goals are and how can they achieve it.

I am sure all of you are in contact with a person who keeps on changing his working domains, as he did not like the work. Does he does not have the goal? Well from a distance it looks like so but the reality is completely different.  He may have goals and his goals may force him to switch the domain. If he wants to earn 1 crore in 3 years then he can’t sit in office with fixed salary.  The problem, which we all face, is the lack of guidance. We know our goals but we do not know how we can achieve it.

I met plenty of peoples who wants to open restaurant chain and knows nothing about it. Will they get enough courage to start the chain? Well the answer is obviously no. I personally believe that rather than working on the goal setting one must have to pay attention to the path he will adopt and by setting small milestones, he can achieve his goals.

However, goal setting is quite tedious process but you must have to set a yearly goal so that you can analyze yourself that you achieve it or not. I personally recommend everyone to set the goals as per the will not as per the statistics. Statistics may suggest you the field, which is uninteresting to you, and hence you must have to select that field which increase your interest.   I am in contact with a chartered accountant who is not interested in his job and soon he will start his own business. In spite of having good pay package he is not willing to continue it and the sole reason behind it is the interest. So, pay attention to your interest and avoid changing the goals. Once goal is set pay attention to the path not the goal. If path is right and you are putting efforts in walking on that path then you can achieve your goals. If you need any help regarding goal setting you can mail me at vishwasnyaik@gmail.com , I can try my level best to help you in setting goal and designing the way for it.  

Adjusting to adverse situations

Change is course of nature and we have to change ourselves for the survival. World is full of adverse situations and we have to keep ourselves prepared for it. I know this thought is quite common and people having this thought are ubiquitous. There is nothing wrong in this thought and in fact I personally admit this fact. Though the thought is easy to understand but it is really difficult to current situation.

In current corporate world it is absolutely necessary to keep this thought in mind. There are many situation arises when you have to change yourself and hence you have to prepare for it. My life is full of experiences where I have to change myself according to situation. After entering in the professional world every day I have to face situations which are forcing me to change myself. Recently I have to perform the thing which I hate to do it but still I have to perform it. Most of the time I have to do the things under pressure but you cannot stand for your rights every time. In corporate field the changes that you undergo is mostly related with the work and if you are finding it hard to do the work then it’s better to look for the other opportunity. I am experiencing the situation in recent times and seriously annoyed with it. I find it really difficult to control the anger and if you are also facing the situation then it’s better to avoid it for sometime so that you can calm down yourself.

 The only solution to this issue is the patience and if the things are not getting better then you have to start looking for the other opportunity. Before opting the other options just make it sure that you want to quit it else you will regret it for a long time. Hope you don’t face this situation for a long time and soon you will be on track.

Losing the wait game

The days are not the same. When you expect something to happen 80 percent of the times you find yourself on the losing side. Moreover, the situation becomes worst when you desperately want something to go in your way. Yesterday I face the similar situation. I had an appointment from a corporate professional regarding my internships and I was looking forward to it. He always considers me as inborn marketer and wants me to take the marketing. However, I do not feel the same. Being pissed from the marketer tag, I am looking forward to learn finance and hence I called him for internship.

I do not have any good opportunity to do internship and he is my only choice. I called him and he asked to me visit his office at 11.15. I turn up on the time and then the wait game starts. Sitting silently on the waiting room expecting him to arrive was not an easy thing. I was observing the ambience of the office and was trying to get some positive energy. It was not the first time that I went there and so some employee knows me. After having, some brief conversation with few I placed myself on the black couch. Couch was awesome and it gives optimum physical comfort but sitting on it waiting for him to come was not at all comfortable. 

After waiting for an hour, I decide to call him and he revealed that he is in meeting and he will call me whenever he will be free. I decided to wait for some more time. Finally, my patience comes to end and I decide to leave. I was expecting him on the doors and as I cross door I realized it is a real life not a movie. I turn on my bike and while on the way to home I was thinking only on the time which I spent waiting for me. I was getting agitated and feeling like a worthless person. Moreover, I was thinking that I hurried a bit and I should wait for some more time. With the mixed feeling, I reached to home and starts finishing the other works. Sometimes it is difficult to cop up with the situation you face after losing the wait game and I personally request you all to avoid make other’s wait. Either tells them truth that you are busy or turn up on the time. Remember, no matter how comfortable your waiting room is, it will not give comfort to the person who is waiting.  

Sanity returns to the MP congress

Six month back everyone was shouting the name of Shivraj Singh Chauhan and he is still the favorite for the CM but now the situation is different. Everyone including the BJP was considering this election is cake walk as congress was completely out of the track. But now with each passing day congress is growing strong. From the balanced statements to the selection of candidates congress is making every effort to increase the seats and their effort are well on its way to make it possible. With the growing popularity of the Scindia the congress state is again in the hunt and BJP too are aware of it.

No matter how influential the Modi and BJP campaigns but the Scindia’s campaign effect can be seen on M.P. voters. The lists of candidates are out and it gives clear indication of betterment of congress. I wouldn’t be surprised if I see congress won 110 seats out of 230. While in BJP the panic can be seen and their state level leaders are clueless in this election. Though the tickets are distributed wisely but as compared to congress the BJP are showing less intent. May be they are focusing on the Shivraj’s brand which can prove to be effective.

I am personally happy to see the wise statements made by the congress and after a long time I saw congress is working hard to get the maximum seats. It is still early to say that congress can make the government but one thing which is for sure is that BJP will definitely lose 15-30 seats due to the Scindia’s effect. Let’s wait till 8 December to know how effective the Scindia campaign is. 

Random beautiful eyes

Walking down the street for getting some tea is a usual habit of mine. I always find it relaxing to stand on tea stall and listen to the idiotic conversations. Just like the other days, I start my journey towards the tea stalls and I find her standing on the road waiting for the bus to come. I know her as I used to adore her beautiful eyes while taking sip of my tea but this day was a bit different. I was sensing some tensions building around her but as I do not know her enough to ask about I decided not to ask her.  Her bus arrives and she went inside it. I sense her eyes flickering towards me but I am unsure about it. The day comes back to the normal and I too start doing my other regular activities.

After finishing the day I was lying on the bed, reading some random articles and suddenly her thoughts enters in mind space. I was thinking about her and I was drawing possible conclusion of her sadness. I do not know why but I was feeling attached towards her. I do not know her name and all I know the name of institute whose bus used to pick her up. I decide to talk to her and introduce myself formally and with this thought, I fall asleep. Next morning I geared up to start the conversation but she did not arrive, I felt bad but then I too begin my work. Next day I saw her standing on the stand with a handmade bag in her had. Her eyes were looking as well and she was relaxed. I want to talk to her but as she was in happy moods I don’t want to initiate the conversation by revealing that I noticed her resentment and hence I avoid interacting with her.

After seeing two or three, more times she stops coming to the bus stand and it’s been 3 years since I saw her.  I was happy with the fact that last time I saw her happy face but I am sad by not interacting her. I do not know where she is but I hope she will be happy wherever she is. So miss RBE (random beautiful eyes, I used this acronym for indicating her in my diary) stay happy always and if you landed on my blog to read it then please respond.  Until then god bless you and other who reads it.    

Hopeless love

Love is a beautiful feeling isn’t it? When you are in love you sense the cold winds blowing around you, violins are playing happy chords and more importantly you start reacting positively towards the world.  Everything is so beautiful when you are in love and lasts till the time the person is with you. But what if the person doesn’t want to be with you? What if he or she does not consider you as a soul mate? These are some feelings which are better left alone.

When you are in this feeling many of our close friends will suggest you to focus on other things and you too will try your level best to focus on the other things but the result will be a zero.  When you realize that your efforts are summing up to nothing then you are in deep desolation. You tend to start losing hopes and start thinking that there is nothing right can happen to you. The worst part of such situation is that your feelings grew stronger for the person.

If you are experiencing such situations and you do not want to reveal it to anyone then only option you have is to think about this misery. I know this is a foolish solution but I have seen it working many times. Once you spend a day or two in thinking about these feeling you either pissed off from it and a counter feeling of hatred is been developed or you become strong enough to overcome with these feelings. In both cases you will be in a state where all you have to do is to move on from the current life. So, don’t be afraid if you are in hopeless love state and just give sometime to this feeling as well. Who knows it will ends up making you a strong person. 

Socially ignored

There are millions of people ready with their social profile looking to impress the audience. Unfortunately only few succeed while others are in the transient state. They too want to become the part of the virtual social society. With the advent of the social networking websites individuals are geared up to increase their social quotient. I have experience many individuals who are a bit introvert but on social networks they pretend to be an extrovert. They are happy till the comments and likes are flowing towards their activities and once the flow reduces they start feeling ignored. I am sure you also witness many relations broken due to ignorance of one’s activity on social networks.

Few days back I was checking my wall and saw a post of my friend. His post was carrying a sad quote tagged with feeling sad and there were 15 likes and 6 comments. Rather than liking I commented question mark and leave him a personal message. Few minutes later I got his reply that he is all fine and he just wants his crush to contact him.  The purpose has solved and she contacted him. Yesterday eve he again posted the similar quote but this time there were no response. May be she figured out the fact or she was really busy but her action makes my friend feel sad. After fifteen minutes of conversation I managed him to come over and he is all fine. Though I did not do such things to grab attention but I admit that ignorance of someone special is really painful. 

I often hurt myself when I saw someone’s like on other photograph and not on me. The only solution I came up with reduce my activity as I am not the one who can keeps on the activities ignoring this thing. Trust me it worked and now if I post anything then I don’t even care about checking its likes and comments. I know you will be saying it’s a coward’s way of dealing with such issues but I don’t find any good way to handle it. If you are having better suggestions to me then please write that in comment and help me in getting a new way out. Waiting for the response. 

Healthy Street for healthy India

One of the major problems of India is its hygiene standards. We are living in a nation, which always compromise on the hygiene standards. However, the situation is quite better in present day but still there are plenty of hygiene concerns still exist. Moreover, the future of India i.e. kids are suffering a lot.  I have seen my nephews and niece struggling with health whenever they eat on the street. We try our best to stop them from eating the street food but it difficult for them to do so. How can they say no to pani puri?

Moreover, if we analyze the current situations then we would find that the hygiene standards of street foods is very low but due to its unique taste people especially kids loves to eat at thelas. Every parent tries to convince the kid but everyone is fails to do so and the only reason of it is parents are also fond of eating street foods. I do not know what the reason for their taste is but I also love it.  We cannot ask the thelawala to stop selling the items nor can we convince the kids to stop eating the street foods.  The only possible thing we can do is to try and maintain the hygiene standards to streets.

Dust, air pollutions, contaminated water is the source of the diseases and if we try to fix them, we can easily do it. Though government help will be needed but the initiation starts from us. We have to stop dumping the waste on streets and we should also avoid spitting on the street. If government can provide the clean water and pay attention to vehicle pollution then we can have an improved hygienic environment.  We can also give kids dabar chamanprash to make them immune from diseases. 

If we want an immune India then we have to sense our responsibility and we have to start acting accordingly. Let’s try and make the India and Immune and advance India.

Senseless statements could prove fatal to Congress

Yesterday was a busy day.  Everyone in my area was in rush to reach home or to finish tasks before the AAM SABHA of Rahul Gandhi. I lived near the place where the Rahul was expected to deliver the speech. Due to my semester exams I was not able to attain the sabha but I read the complete speech of Rahul Gandhi. The speech was no different from his other speeches and I was disappointed by the way he took to convince the voters. Though audience applauded every sentence of Rahul Gandhi but congress cannot consider it to be in their favor. After all the audience were the paid ones. The point he was raising was useless and his desperation to prove congress better than other parties was shown in his speech. Today I heard MODI giving speech in Jhansi (U.P.) and he was just using the Rahul Gandhi’s statements.

In this situation where the MODI is the HOT favorite congress must not give any statements which may turn against them. Congress leaders are totally confused and don’t know how to handle the media or to give speeches while the BJP leaders are giving effective speeches. State elections are approaching in Madhya Pradesh and Jyotiraditya Scindia’s effect can be seen in Madhya Pradesh but the speeches of Rahul Gandhi and other senior leaders are making his way tougher. I have seen Jyotiraditya scindia defending the senior’s leaders in the press and I don’t think he is supposed to do that.

If congress really want to win the elections then they must have to adopt the strategy which they adopted in the 2003 elections i.e. give right kind of speeches and attack the party not the candidate. In 2003 Atal bihari Vajpayee ji was hot favorite but congress still able to sneak victory. Moreover, congress can learn from its own C.M. Sheela Dixit who is likely to win the next elections as well. If congress is willing to pass such statements then I would request them to stay away from state level politics in Madhya Pradesh as it will waste Scindia’s efforts.

I hope that the statement quality of congress improves in near future otherwise it will be curtains for the congress. 

Everything else matters

He is in his early thirties and has a habit of falling in love. I am talking about one of my friends who just ended one more relation. Sometimes I wonder why he keeps falling in love after having so many bad experiences. I know him for past 3 years and I witnessed 4 break ups. Every time he found a girl, he starts acting like a matured person and after sometime his sanity flews like a smoke. Until today I was not having the courage to ask why he keeps on searching for the new girl and why he keeps ending the relations. Today I fired the question and get a smile in reply.

I was prepared for some kind of philosophical speech or angry reactions but surely not for this kind of reaction. I again asked him why he keeps ending the relation and he replied because his girlfriend wants it. I had a word with her girlfriend and from her words I don’t think she wants the same.  Rather than revealing this, I fired another question “why you think she wants to end the relation?” I again got the smile in the reply. He ordered two coffee and said let me give all your answers at once. After taking a sip he starts speaking “have you ever heard Matallica’s nothing else matters?” I said yes. So if you are in true love with someone then nothing else matters for you and if you don’t love truly then everything else matters. He revealed that all her past girlfriends were busy in finding happiness in other things while he was trying to find happiness in her eyes. Moreover, whenever he finds someone he thinks that’s it and for him the world is just finished around her but unfortunately for the girl the world is still left outside him.

I advised him not to go in the relationship so fast until you find the right girl and he said if I judge the girl by keeping my parameters then I would find the girl who is perfect for me but what about the girl is she been able to find her Mr. Perfect in me? I said, definitely yes and he again replied me with a smile. Before going into the long conversation he summed up the thing that let me keep myself open for everyone and who knows what it I will get in the end.

Our conversation ended but still I am thinking about his conditions. How he is feeling right now as he always finds the space of Mr. Perfect empty in his girlfriend’s heart. I hope he will find someone for whom nothing else matters and in fact I wish the same for his ex as well. 

Odd way out

Odd winds start knocking my door and I wasn’t having any clue. Suddenly my so called steady life is been shattered and my panic starts resulting blunders. To avoid turmoil I start working hard and I was hoping that things will start falling in the right place. Unfortunately, nothing has happened and situations were getting worst every day. I begin to increase effort level and start trying to find the positivity.  As I read somewhere that positivity helps individual to find the right way, hence I was applying it.  Sadly, this also proves to be of no use and now I was feeling the heat. 

Trying to find the way, I was doing every possible effort and with each failure I was getting more and more tensed. Just few days back I visited one of my old hangout places and the shop owner greeted me with a broad smile. I asked him how everything is going on and get this reply “everything is fine, just enjoying the routine life”. He was living a complacent life and hence he was having many moments to cherish.

After coming back, I think over his answer and now I got the root cause of the problem. In order to make things right I changed my routine life. Before facing the problems, I was having a routine of evening walk and reading books. But as the things went wrong, I start paying attention to only problem. Next day I woke up and start doing the normal activities, believe me I did not do anything which is out of my characteristics and things starts falling on the right place.  I don’t know, whether it was luck or the result of my routine life but now the things are well in control. Generally, we all change our life in adverse situations which results mistakes. If we concentrate on problem without disturbing our routine then we can solve our problem easily. If the problem is related with your work, then solve it at your workstation and if it is with your family then discuss it only when you are at home. Don’t try to pay attention to problem 24 X 7, as it will increase the number of other mistakes. So, if you are also facing such situations then please stick to the basics and trust me your problem will be solved.   

Provoking thoughts

Life is beautiful, isn’t it? Well for a kid or for a self-complacent person it holds well. Then what is for others? Well some find it miserable; some find it battle, while I find life as an ignorant object. Whenever I try to focus on the life I lose focus on the world. In an effort of making life good, I waste many good moments. Though I manage to sneak some time for creating relationships, which dilutes my resentment but still it’s pretty much on the same side.

I read many philosophical books, heard many spiritual gurus giving their thoughts, in short I tried many ways to enlightened my soul (that’s what many guru’s used to say when they find a purposeless life) but the result were not in my favor. In search of an answer I began to read OSHO and believe me no magic happen. My life moves in the same manner but my thoughts range increases. Now for every situation I have many thoughts and more importantly few thoughts help me in coming over from the miserable situation.

Thoughts are really helpful and in fact everyone of us are having plenty of thoughts but in order to increase its range one must have to store experience that he gathers. There is no one who is weak or strong, those who have low thought range are weak. Best way to increase the range is by reading. As it helps you in observing the same thing from different dimension, hence it would be great if you start reading. Luckily I have the habit which really helps me a lot. I would suggest you all that please start reading books. One book in a month will be just fine. Just spend some time with it and you will surely be able to get the desired result.